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How to Redefine Success and Find Happiness in Your Life

How are you feeling right now? Exhausted? Burned out? Struggling to cope? If so, you’re not alone. 2020 is a year most of us would like to forget, as COVID-19 has impacted every aspect of our lives.

You may have entered this year with big goals (we did!), only to see them fall by the wayside as life took an unexpected turn. That’s frustrating, for sure. But try not to measure yourself against plans you made in ‘the before times,’ or compare your progress to that of others. Instead of beating yourself up for ‘failing,’ here’s a radical idea: you can redefine success. 

Perhaps you didn’t lose weight, quit smoking, or write that book; sometimes, simply getting to the end of the day in one piece is an accomplishment. It doesn’t mean giving up on your dreams; it means you’ll live to fight another day. Redefining success takes account of your changed circumstances and liberates you from the need to achieve it all now.

A time to reflect

“There can be no life without change, and to be afraid of what is different or unfamiliar is to be afraid of life.”

Theodore Roosevelt

We began this series of posts in January with a promise: We’d “help you build your own flexible toolkit for success, with a year-long series covering the essential building blocks of productivity.” Little did we know then what this year would bring. And so we’ve also had to redefine success—from helping you be more productive to helping you navigate uncharted territory.

The end of the calendar year forms a natural opportunity to pause, reflect on what you’ve achieved, and set your goals and intentions for the coming year. Now, with the benefit of hindsight, there’s one last question you need to answer for 2020: After everything you’ve been through this year, what does success look like now?

To help you answer that, we’d like to do our own reflecting and look back on the previous entries in this series, to see how you can apply them as you set your sights on 2021 and beyond. Each one holds a piece of the puzzle that, when completed, offers you everything you need to accomplish your goals.

Here, then, are nine indispensable tools for success—however you choose to define it. 

Overcome your bad habits

Millions of people say they want to improve some part of their lives, but research shows only eight percent will actually achieve their goal. 

The problem is that we are creatures of habit…literally. Psychologist Wendy Wood says, “When you repeat an action over and over again in a given context and then get a reward when you do that, you are learning very slowly and incrementally to associate that context with that behavior.”

To break your bad habits, try these strategies instead:

Make a plan

Creating a plan may seem like an inconvenience when you want your journey to a better life to begin now. But traversing new territory is easier when you have a map—whether that’s taking a vacation, earning a promotion, or starting a new business.

Here’s how to create your own foundation for action:

Stay focused

In times of uncertainty (*gestures at everything*), the goal isn’t to match your peak productivity levels. Instead, it’s about finding pockets throughout the day that are more conducive to focusing, and gradually reducing distractions.

Here are four ways to stay on task and get your work done:

Get organized

Disorganization wastes time and money. The ultimate goal is to organize your life to help you find calm and think more clearly. While this will look different for everyone, you can experiment with different approaches to see what resonates with you:

Find inspiration

Steve Jobs once said, “Creativity is just connecting things. When you ask creative people how they did something, they feel a little guilty because they didn’t really do it, they just saw something.” 

Here are three steps to making those elusive connections and boosting your creativity: 

Be open to possibilities

While it’s important to focus, too much focus on one thing can cause a kind of mental tunnel vision, closing you off to new ideas. As a result, your work can begin to feel mundane and uninspired. 

Here are four strategies for breaking the monotony so you can be more open to inspiration:

Capture your ideas

Evernote’s founder Stepan Pachikov once said, “An interesting moment in life lasts only a moment.” The challenge is grabbing hold of those moments—those brilliant ideas—so they can live forever. To do that, you need a strategy for capturing them when inspiration strikes.  

Here’s how to get ideas out of your head and into a note:

Practice adaptability

You can’t always know or control what tomorrow will bring, but you can control how you react to change. Will you flounder and drown, or will you find stable ground and take advantage of fresh opportunities? Your adaptability, along with the overlapping traits of resilience and emotional intelligence, may well tip the balance.

Here are three sets of specific tools you can use right now to become more adaptable, and navigate even the scariest change:

Master self-discipline

Despite all the disruption this year has brought, each new day is an opportunity to reset your outlook, recalibrate your aim, and try again. Along with creating a plan for what you want to achieve, there’s one vitally important skill you need to master: self-discipline. Then, when unexpected events occur (as they surely will), you’ll have the strength to resist temptation and stay laser-focused on your goals—no matter what life throws at you.  

Some of the tools you’ve already picked up on this journey have multiple uses, so here are three tips for building self-discipline that’ll help you stay strong in difficult times:

If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s that no matter how well you plan for the future, there will always be surprises. True success comes from learning how to navigate those unexpected changes and stay focused on what you want to achieve. Sometimes that will require a change of plans; sometimes it will mean rethinking your entire definition of success. But with a clear understanding of the challenges you face, and the determination to overcome them, you can still reach your goals.